7 unexpected signs that you’re crap in bed
If when you finish having sex there is this voice in your head that tells you that you could have done better, you may have to listen to it.
Undoubtedly we have all wondered how good we are in bed, and although our partners may tell us that we are the best in bed, but truth is she may not be 100 percent honest with you.
We don’t always know what is failing and even if we go around our minds and focus on the basics when it comes to having sex, sometimes it is not enough, so here we leave 7 signs that you are bad in bed and you had not noticed.
1. CONCENTRATE ON ORGASM
Do not! Orgasm is not the most important thing in a sexual relationship, there is too much happenings in the way and you are missing out. Pressing or pushing your partner to get an orgasm already, can be uncomfortable for her or for both. Enjoy the trip.
2. YOUR PLEASURE IS THE ONLY PRIORITY DURING SEX
If at the time of being with your partner you only think about yourself, you may be mistaken. If you care about your partner’s pleasure as much as yours, the experience can greatly improve. Even knowing that you are satisfying your partner can lead to more sexual excitement on your part.
3. HURRY UP
They are not runners. Everything takes its time. Enjoying the foreplay. Kisses and caresses can lead to even more intense orgasms.
4. THE INTERACTION IS CLUMSY
Don’t feel bad— in this life we have all had sessions of awkward sex, where there is no synchrony, there are strange noises, accidental blows, etc. If you do not feel comfortable and in turn, have the confidence to tell your partner, maybe she does not feel well either.
All of the problems listed above can be solved through communication. If you fail to talk about sex, it’s going to be difficult to make any improvement.
5. NOT ASKING FOR WHAT YOU WANT
Sex requires a lot of intimacy and communication, so guiding your partner to the places that leads you to climax is not a bad idea. It’s excellent, in fact.
6. YOUR PARTNER ACTS WEIRD WHEN YOU END
Sex is one of the most enjoyable pleasures of life, during and after. If you notice your partner feeling uncomfortable, you may not be doing so well.
7. EVADES THE THEME
If you and your partner do everything possible to avoid talking about sex, something is wrong. If you do not address the issue, how will you remedy the problem? You have to relax and let yourself flow. In sex, communication is a key element. So, it is best to talk about what you like and what you do not like.