Believe it or not there are still people who google the sexual doubts that many may seem basic: How to have sex? What does it feel like to have sex? How do I know it’s a good sex?
Here are some of the 11 most searched sex questions on Google.
Teen Vogue compiled them and here we also give the answer to each one of them.
1. How to have sex?
When a person inserts a part of his body into the hole of the other, as explained by sexologist Carol Queen, author of “The Sex and Pleasure Book”.
2. What is sex?
Many experts could define sex as having sex with a partner but the Queen’s definition is broader: “Sex is all that one or more people can do to satisfy the erotic feelings of another. This definition includes masturbation, oral sex and sexual intercourse.
3. How does it feel to have sex?
It can be felt in different ways, it depends on the type of sex that is being practiced and the degree of comfort the couple is experiencing. At best they are pleasurable sensations, not only in your genitals but throughout your body that lead you to experience an orgasm, as the specialist explains.
4. Why do I have sexual dreams?
Lauri Loewenberg, author of “Dream on It: Unlock Your Dreams, Change Your Life,” explains that there are 2 ways to experience them: Obsessing about having it or thinking about the person who occupies our mind all day.
5. How can I have good sex?
You do not need to know everything. Talk to your partner about what you like and do not like. And concentrate on knowing what you want and also talk about the safety measures that will use to take care of both health.
6. How do you kiss?
Tilt your head in the opposite direction of your partner, close your eyes and touch lips.
7. How does it feel when you have good sex?
Our brain and endocrine system are responsible for creating emotions, such as love, that make us feel good when we have sex. These parts of our body are responsible for provoking various responses and sexual stimuli.
8. How many calories do we burn during sex?
It depends on numerous factors like your body weight, length of sexual intercourse and how vigorous it is.
9. Why does it hurt to have sex?
There are 3 main reasons: The first is because of lack of lubrication, especially when having anal sex.
The second is lack of excitement: When the body is excited, blood is concentrated in the genitals (hence the erection of the male member) and lubrication in men and women.
The third reason is the size or length of the penis, as some women may experience pain when the male member hits her cervix. There are other health problems for which you may experience pain but these are the 3 main causes.
10. How long does it take a woman to become pregnant after having sex?
We know that the morning-after pill can prevent a pregnancy up to 5 days after having sex, but it is much more effective if taken immediately.
If she does not take it, if she makes love and she is ovulating, the conception will take place in the next 48 hours, but if the sperm is stored in her cervix, she could get pregnant up to 4 days after intercourse.
11. How long should sex last?
It depends on the age of the couple, as well as the number of times they have had sex and the energy they have, but according to a survey conducted by a group of sexologists, the average time is:
“Very short”: 1 to 2 minutes, “Adequate”: 3 to 7 minutes and “Desirable”: 7 to 13 minutes.